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Thanks for all your work in this area. What a difference a basic understanding of what’s going on really makes.

One of the bigger lessons I learnt last year is that as humans, we are capable of feeling pain. I’ve been embodying this for years as pain relief mainly hasn’t worked for me since 2016. I’m so glad that during this time I would say to others “all pain is painful. All pain is valid” even though I was living with it to the highest end of the scale (cluster attack which I describe as excruciating, but mainly severe/agonising - slightly less than excruciating). now i mainly live with mild pain and I can function through ‘episodes’. though I am no longer disabled by it or suffering to the extent I was, pain is painful and my experience (just like anyone else’s) is valid. I no longer seek another to validate the horror, the highs or the lows of my own lived experience. That alone is freeing 🙏

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